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Now I am wearing bras, and camisoles, too. I acquired all new panties, pantyhose (like your husband, I do not wear stockings). My libido came to life! With that change, my desire for women’s clothing and lingerie skyrocketed. Eventually, I purged my drawer and returned to boxer briefs.īut a weird thing happened about 16 months ago. He was always worried that someone would see. He knew I wore panties underneath my male clothing.
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At this time, I had rotated out my boxers and briefs for panties, until the drawer looked like a display at Victoria’s Secret. Exactly as you describe, at first he thought it was fun and a bit taboo.Īs the years went by, I could see his acceptance turn to mild tolerance. I told him before he moved in with me that I liked women’s lingerie. But all that time, I was still crossdressing whenever I could. It’s like both of our libidos died at the same time. He and I have not had sexual contact with each other in 11 years. I’m a lucky man.īut therein lies my problem. He’s all the things a husband should ideally be. (Think Niles Crane, and you get the idea.) He and I have been together for just over 25 years. No, he wasn’t nor isn’t anyone’s ideal of masculinity, yet he also isn’t flamboyant. I am very lucky I found my husband when I was 21. I never got “picked up” or “cruised.” (Yuck.) Even when I would go to gay bars in my late teens (errr…I mean after I was 21!) I wasn’t attracted to anyone, really. Recently, this was the case with Corey, who wanted people to know that (1) gay crossdressers exist, and (2) a little bit more about their experience.īeing a homosexual man, who believes he is really a woman, it should therefore follow that I am a heterosexual female. Every once in a while I get an email from someone who is in the middle of reading MHB for the first time, and they either want to tell me their whole story or feel under represented in some ways.